Now that was quite the sabbatical J! I am back from our
debt free vacation to Hawaii and I have to say our visit was refreshing and
invigorating. During the spring of this year we paid off my wife’s student loan
and we decided to take a celebratory trip back to the islands this year. We are
also utilizing an earmarked savings account specifically for travel that we
prioritize and save for every month so that we can take lots of little trips
and an annual one to a far destination. Travelling together and seeing the
world is a priority to us right along with saving for retirement and paying
cash for our first home and becoming completely debt free has enabled us to
realize these plans and dreams.
One of my points of pride from this trip is that we ventured
to 2 islands, Kauai and Oahu, and we check marked everything we wanted to do on
our itineraries and came under our planned budget by $2,000. What I find even
more remarkable in retrospect is that I feel we did not instinctively scrimp
and save while we were out on the islands. We enjoyed dining out for lunches
and dinners and we both experienced some spending fatigue while out there.
At first though I had to push myself to actually spend
money. We were driving along in Kauai and the morning sun began to break
through and we stopped along to get some sunscreen because we only brought
carry on luggage on the flight to avoid the check fees for baggage. So I ran
into a local market and was immediately appalled at the price gouging done on
the sunscreen products I was looking at. I was just about to run out of the
store, hop back into our rental car and tell my wife to drive to the nearest
Wal-Mart when I heard a voice in my head say, “Just buy the sunscreen and quit
complaining, stupid!” What helped is that when we vacation I carry along our
daily budget and tally our expenses as they are incurred. At this point (first
day) I already knew that we were going to come under our daily budget regularly
(we did) and have to get really creative to come out of our frugal spending
shells just to even come close to our daily budget amount. So I hit a really
cool pivotal point where I put my spending shield down and began to live in the
present and enjoy life.
With my notes in hand I made sure that my wife and I knew
our daily spending limit but in reconciling that along with our daily activity
plans I was at ease knowing that we could enjoy our trip, do all of the things
we wanted to do and still not even come close to our daily limit. It really
helped me downshift from the hustle and bustle of daily life here in Chicago to
a relaxed state of mind and I instantly began enjoying every second of our
vacation without worry.
To help deflect costs my wife found excellent rates on
hotels.com. At that site she tracked down 2 gorgeous resort locations. In
essence the resorts she found are time-share centric and these companies rent
out their unsold units on sites like hotels.com. Yes we were offered a pitch to
sit down for a timeshare presentation, but if you know me at all I am only
looking to invest in real estate that appreciates, not prepay for vacations. So
we happily said no to attending the presentation.
Call me odd and weird (I’m happy to be so by the way) but I
also enjoy making breakfast while on vacation. So we set criteria for our
lodgings to have a full kitchen and we picked up some essential breakfast items
and made breakfast for our each during the course of our stay. On this note
it’s a piece of my frugality that I enjoy doing and probably won’t ever let go
of J.
To me it’s a delicate balance to walk between frugal and hyper-consumer. Being
frugal to me is fun and enjoyable, I love getting a deal and finding unique
ways to off-set costs. Could we have dined out for every meal every day and
have stayed under budget? Sure, but the quiet mornings of making a meal for my
wife and not having to rush out the door to get somewhere is priceless to me.
We had an absolute blast being back in Hawaii. My wife and I
met out there roughly seven years ago while in college and had not been back
since we graduated. For the most part our old college spots have remained the
same but I was surprised with how much Waikiki has changed. The influx of
Japanese tourists has dramatically changed the landscape in my opinion. Newer
buildings and improved landscapes have given Waikiki such a modern and new feel
to it from the place I remember. Nevertheless it was fun to walk down memory
lane and make wonderful new memories in the same locale.
We also received the compliment of the year when a student
working the bookstore was surprised to learn we were not undergrads. So even
though we are close to 30 we still look like we are in our early 20s! I’ll take
that compliment to the bank every day of the week J! We even managed to
use our alumni discount when buying some apparel so even on vacation I avoid
paying retail. But the bulk of our souvenir and clothing purchases were done as
we made time to scour through local thrift stores. We both found great apparel
at a fraction of retail cost, and I even walked away with a new(er) collegiate
duffle bag for work for literally $2.
We had a fantastic trip back to the islands and are now
planning to go back at least once every 2 years. But it is great also to be
back in the Midwest in time for Christmas. So I’m looking forward to writing
even more posts to close out the year.
You inspire me. It's not easy to watch out your spending when on vacation, but you handled it well. I guess proper planning is really the best strategy to avoid being in debt. Anyway, you accomplished a lot of things; I guess 2012 is your lucky year. This trip is definitely a sweet treat for both of you, and I hope there's more for your 2013. Jaden Allred @ TorontoBankruptcyAdvice.com
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